Time for some serious love magick. Marriage spells can help you bring that relationship to the next level and get your lover to commit. Just remember that trying to force a relationship where it's not ready to go can end up coming apart in the end. That said, a little magikcal push never really hurt either.
The Marriage Moon
As the name should suggest, this marriage spell should be cast during a full moon. Arrange to be somewhere (inside or out) where you can see the moon. If it's overcast, pick another night. Your materials for this spell are:
For one full day before you cast this spell, leave the ring in the bowl with the dried herbs. Then do the rest of the ritual on the night of the full moon.
Stand facing the moon, and hold up the ring so you can see the glowing face of the moon through the ring's center. Say these words out loud.
Bring the bond I so desire
My love for him/her will never tire
By the light of this full moon,
Bring a marriage very soon
Hold up the rose so the flower covers the moon's face, and repeat again. Drop the ring down the stem of the rose so it's sitting at the base of the flower. Set the flower and ring into the bowl of herbs, and say the words a final time.
Leave everything in place until the next full moon. You should start to see some results of your spell after that.
Chains of Love
Ok, the "chains" reference may sound a little harsh, but it's a strong commitment you're after right? A chain is the ideal symbol for that concept.
The chain can be from a necklace or a short length of links from the hardware store. Anything will do.
Light each candle, and set them next to each other. Hold the length of chain between your hands, with the middle links over the 2 candle flames (take care if the chain isn't metal, don't set it on fire!). Allow a few inches of chain between your hands.
Count out the links you see between your fingers, out loud. After each number, say "Commit to love, from above". When you've counted the links, hold the chain from one end in both hands and hold it over your head. Repeat the words 3 more times.
Lay the chain on your altar table between the candles, and let them both burn out on their own. Watch for a marriage proposal within a month, or at least a good solid commitment from your partner.
Not quite ready for marriage? I do have a mix of other love spells that might be better for you right now.